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wondering.
take for instance. A - a ger. B - a boy.
A likes B. but B claims to not like A. but still, they still do keep in close contact. B just claims that they're just friends. chances are quite high that B do favours A right? take B's word that he doesn't like A, what he does definitely misleads A even more right?
example two. B likes A. but B keeps trying hard to give A the idea that B doesn't like A. and even tries to avoid A. furthermore, B doesn't take any action in trying to keep in contact. despite all the avoiding and everything, A still likes B. why B doesn't want to do more to get close to A? keeping cool and missing out of hot stuff? it would equate to the word "wasted".
man. people are so contradicting. these two examples just show how different people can be. afterall, i just feel like saying, whatever you do, make sure it tally with what you feel inside and not just for show on the surface. if u care for someone, just show it! it doesnt cut a piece of meat off your arm. if u want to be friends with someone, make sure the distance is just right and not too close or it would make both of u suffer. if u like someone, firstly, make sure the time is right before confessions (confessions will put friendships into jeopardy). secondly, make sure the feelings are right oso. the other factors would come by later.
another thing is. how often is it that you see ex-boyfriends/girlfriends becoming good friends once again? the percentage is quite low. normally they would be just hi-bye friends, not good friends. pity. pity.
rihs rants; 01:20